
People who are...strong lift others up. People who are...powerful bring others together. Ā Michelle Obama
Our Team
Meet our leading ladies. Our team consists of members like you who resonate with our mission and collaborate, each in their own unique way, to enrich our community. But the best and most valuable part of taking charge (just ask any of them!) is the personal growth and self-confidence gained from proactively working to create the fulfillment you want for yourself while forging a path that others can follow.

I moved from DC to LA in 2000, after a long career in graphic design. It was hard to find friends as an older woman in a new town, so I started FFF>50. Since then, it has been my passion to knock down the silos that separate us, and facilitate friendships based on the shared experience of struggling to stay vital in a society that often separates and devalues us. Helping women by leading this group has been so rewarding! My mission is to make this a home where any woman can come for fun, friendship, and support.

One of my greatest pleasures is a good bottle of wine with good food and good company. I love travel and exploring new cultures. Backpacking opened me to the freedom of the outdoors with nothing more than what I carried on my back. Iām a voracious reader. To me aging gracefully is maintaining a healthy lifestyle and being comfortable in oneās Ā skin. Women my age and older who are living of their best years are an inspiration. I hope to always be a good friend by being of use, being compas-sionate, and showing gratitude to all.

I moved to Seattle from Nashville in 2018. I had always dreamed of living here, and the beauty of this area has completely amazed me. However, making friends has been a challenge. Discovering FFF 50 has been a game-changer. It has given me a supportive community and friends all over the world. I even have close connections with people in Los Angeles whom Iāve only met through Zoom.
My work schedule as an RN can leave me exhausted or too late for in-person events. Thatās why the virtual events have been incredibleāI look forward to the ones I attend regularly and love trying new ones. Iām excited to help grow the Seattle chapter and to explore more of the city and surrounding areas!

I grew up in Kansas but have lived in Maine almost my whole adult life. I have been involved in education for many years and am currently an educational therapist at a private school. In my free time, I enjoy making and listening to music, reading, and spending time in nature. I feel so lucky to be living in such a beautiful state with many cool cultural offerings. I look forward to sharing the wonders of Maine with other women in this area.Ā Ā

Currently retired and recently moved to Santa Monica from the Boston area. Before retirement I spent 30 years as a management consultant specializing in strategic planning and team and leadership development. I also spent 10 years as a Human Resources professional.
I am very committed to working with non-profits whose mission I respect and with people who share my values.

I started the Berkeley chapter in 2019 after reading the NY Times article about FFF>50. Berkeley grew to over 1,000 members as it fulfilled the need we have for connection. My 30-year career as an attorney is winding down, and I've completed a mindfulness meditation teacher certification, a practice that has been the grounding force for much of my life. I love spending time with friends I met through hosting events in my chapter. I look forward to retiring so I can devote myself to Mindfulness instead of law.

With over 40 years in communi-cations, my past occupations range from radio announcer, journalist, and training instructor, to creative director and graphic designer. Iāve performed as a storyteller with The Moth, been published in Newsweek, and even penned a memoir, āA Day at the Fare: One Womanās Welfare Passage.ā Today, I thrive as a speaker, anti-poverty advocate, writer, and creative, who relocated to Georgia after 26 years in Virginia. Recog-nizing how FFF>50 enriches womenās lives, I was inspired to step up as the Atlanta Chapter Lead.

I was looking for places to connect when someone recommended FFF. Since joining, I have a fulfilling and active social life. I host a variety of events for the LA chapter, and as hosting director, I look forward to encouraging and helping other hosts. Iām a retired high school history teacher, a trained docent for the Santa Monica Mountains, and a volunteer at the Natural History Museum. Bringing enjoyment and companionship is greatly rewarding to me.

Iām excited to be the Ann Arbor chapter lead and help nurture friendships in our community. Itās rewarding to see new people come together and enjoy the great variety of activities we plan. Iām a retired teacher, married with three daughters, and three grandchildren. I enjoy reading, crafting, yoga and socializing.

Creating womenās communities that are both supportive and playful is something I enjoy so much that I formed my business around it! Iām the owner of Untamed Pathways LLC, and work as a Women's Holistic Living Coach, Travel Advisor, Retreat/Event Planner, Community Engagement Manager & Writer. I enjoy nature, art, history and culture. I look forward to getting to know you, sharing adventures together and enjoying our lovely community!

Patricia Linderman lives in Falls Church, VA and loves exploring the DC area by Metro, e-bike, kayak and sometimes by car. She turned her own health around in her 50s and then became a health coach to support others in their own journeys. Her work is also her play, as she leads an outdoor workout, a balance class and Laughter Yoga sessions, among other activities. She loves the diverse, fun and fascinating women she's met through FFF>50 and is dedicated to helping the DC group grow and thrive.

Stacy is a graduate of Teachers College, Columbia University where she earned a Master of Education and a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology.Ā She served as a teacher and psychological counselor for the New York City Department of Education for twenty-one years, until her retirement in 2021. A mountain lover and world traveler, Stacy has spent time in the Himalayas, the Andes, the High Atlas Mountains, and Southeast Asia.Ā And is the author of debut novel, Behind the Jagged Edges of silhouette Trees.

I retired from the motion picture film processing industry in 2005 and moved from the āburbsā to Los Angeles proper. I joined FFF>50 in 2007, and became a founding member and co-organizer. When COVID hit, I started hosting online āHappy Hours,ā which eventually blossomed into a variety of weekly events. Iāve met delightful women from all walks of life, love to hear their stories, and share my love of movies, philosophy, and politics. These years with the women of FFF>50 have been the most rewarding of my life, and I look forward to many more.

Womenās groups were a lifeline for me when I moved to Colorado over a decade ago. Iām now proud to call the Denver area home. I look forward to sharing the great variety of activities available here with others. Iām an indoorsy person, so youāll see me hosting events like movies, museums, crafting, and such. However, the wonderful thing about FFF>50 is that the members can shape the group by hosting any event they desire. I look forward to seeing what Denver members come up with!

After retiring from a successful corporate career, I discovered a passion for inspiring and supporting women over 50 as they navigate their next chapter through Second Act Inspiration. My interests include traveling, interior design, writing, and reading, which fuels my love for continuous learning and creativity. I am excited to be part of a community where women can expand friendships, share knowledge and interests, or simply enjoy meaningful conversations over coffee. Together, we celebrate the joy of connection and the endless possibilities that life after 50 has to offer!

Iām excited to be working with FFF>50 to foster friendships and enhance the well-being of women. From my first career as a librarian through over 20 years as a business analyst, I bring my passion for organizing information and connecting people with the resources they need. Iāve worked with a variety of businesses from startups to global industry leaders in non-profit organizations, government, and education companies.

Born and raised in Pennsylvania, I recently moved to Santa Fe having spent 30 years in Colorado. I met so many great women through group meetups in Colorado and I look forward to exploring the many activities here in Santa Fe and building new friendships. I enjoy wine and food, music, artisan markets and casual outdoor fun (e.g., walking, hiking, biking) just to name a few, so you will see me hosting events like these. Iām excited to see what other events Santa Fe members want to do for fun!

Iām a veterinarian. When I'm not wrangling furry critters, I enjoy sea kayaking, birdwatching, fishing, snowshoeing and appreciating the beauty of the four seasons. The isolation of the COVID years and the recent passing of a dear friend made me realize that, for the first time in my life, I felt lonely. In my quest to meet new people and establish friendships, I discovered FFF>50 and am so grateful for this opportunity to serve as the Portland chapter co-lead.
I look forward to helping nurture the growth of the Portland Chapter and along the way, establishing lasting friendships with like-minded women.

Chapter Lead - Dale Pollekoff
I moved to LA in 2000, after a long career in graphic design. It was hard to find friends as an older woman, so I started FFF>50. Since then, it has been my passion to facilitate friendships based on the shared experience of staying vital in a society can separate and devalue us. Taking charge of this mission has changed my life, bringing purpose, and revealing how each of us can use our will to bring about the changes we need.

I retired and realized it was time for a change of scene, so I moved to sunny Santa Monica. Before retirementĀ I spent 30 years as a management consultant specializing in strategic planning and team leadershipĀ development. I also spent 10 years as a Human Resources professional. I am very committedĀ to working with nonprofitsĀ whose mission I respect and with people who share my values. So this community is a great fit!

Iām excited to be the Ann Arbor chapter lead and help nurture friendships in our community. Itās rewarding to see new people come together and enjoy the great variety of activities we plan. Iām a retired teacher, married with three daughters, and three grandchildren. I enjoy reading, crafting, yoga and socializing.

From my first career as a librarian through over 20 years as a business analyst, I bring my passion for organizing information and connecting people with the resources they need.Ā Iāve worked with a variety of businesses from startups to global industry leaders in non-profit organizations, government, and education companies.

After retiring from the motion picture business, I joined Meetup and later became the first member to join fff>50 when it started in 2016. When COVID hit, I started hosting online āHappy Hours,ā which eventually blossomed into a variety of weekly events. Iāve met delightful women from all walks of life, love to hear their stories, and share my love of movies, philosophy, and politics. These years with the women of FFF>50 have been the most rewarding of my life, and I look forward to many more.

One of my greatest pleasures is a good bottle of wine with good food and good company. I love travel and exploring new cultures. Backpacking opened me to the freedom of the outdoors with nothing more than what I carried on my back. Iām a voracious reader. ToĀ Ā me aging gracefully is maintaining a healthy lifestyle and being comfortable in oneās skin. Women my age and older who are living some of their best years are an inspiration.

I started the Berkeley chapter in 2019 after reading the NY Times article about FFF>50.Ā Iām looking forward to retirement after 30 years as an attorney. Iām also a certified mindfulness meditation teacher ā a practice that has been the grounding force in my life for more than 25 years. I love spending time with the friends I met through hosting events in my chapter.Ā I look forward to retiring so I can devote myself to Mindfulness instead of law, and to growing the San Francisco area FFF.

Creating womenās communities that are both supportive and playful is something I enjoy so much that I formed my business around it! Iām the owner of Untamed Pathways LLC, and work as a Women's Holistic Living Coach, Travel Advisor, Retreat/Event Planner, Community Engagement Manager & Writer. I enjoy nature, art, history and culture. I look forward toĀ Ā sharing adventures together and enjoying our lovely community!

Womenās groups were a lifeline for me when I moved to Colorado 10+ years ago. Iām now proud to call the Denver area home. I look forward to sharing the great variety of activities available here with others. Iām an indoorsy person, so youāll see me hosting events like movies, museums, crafting, and such. But, the wonderful thing about FFF>50 is that the members can shape the group by hosting any event they desire. I look forward to seeing what Denver members come up with!

I met so many great women through group meetups in Colorado, that I knew the best way to start over when I moved to Santa Fe. I look forward to exploring the many activities here and building new friendships. I enjoy wine and food, music, artisan markets and casual outdoor fun (e.g., walking, hiking, biking) just to name a few. Iām excited to see what other events Santa Fe members want to do!

I moved to Seattle in January 2018. I had always dreamed of living here, and the beauty of this area has completely amazed me. However, making friends has been a challenge. Discovering FFF>50 has been a game changerāit has given me a supportive community and friends all over the world.
As an RN in chemotherapy, my schedule can be tight and tiring. But online events have led to new friends all over the country.

My past occupations range from radio announcer, journalist, and training instructor, to creative director and graphic designer. Iāve performed as a storyteller with The Moth, been published in Newsweek, and even penned a memoir, A Day at the Fare: One Womanās Welfare Passage. Today, I thrive as a speaker, anti-poverty advocate, writer, and creative. Recognizing how FFF>50 enriches womenās lives, I was inspired to step up as the Atlanta Chapter Lead.

I love exploring the DC area by Metro, e-bike, kayak and sometimes by car. I turned my own health around in the 50s and then became a health coach to support others in their own journeys. My work is also my play, as I lead an outdoor workout, a balance class, and Laughter Yoga sessions, among other activities. I love the diverse, fun and fascinating women Iāve met through FFF>50 and am dedicated to helping the DC group grow and thrive.Ā

After retiring from a corporate career, I discovered a passion for inspiring and supporting women as they navigate their next chapter through Second Act Inspiration. I am passionate about continuous learning and creativity.
Itās exciting to be part of a community where women expand friendships, share knowledge and interests, and simply enjoy meaningful conversations. Letās celebrate the endless possibilities that life after 50 has to offer!

Iām a veterinarian. When I'm not wrangling furry critters, I enjoy sea kayaking, birdwatching, fishing, snowshoeing and appreciating the beauty of the four seasons. The isolation of COVID and the death of a dear friend made me realize that I felt lonely. In my quest to meet new people and establish friendships, I discovered FFF>50 and am so grateful for this opportunity to lead the Portland chapter.

I grew up in Kansas but have lived in Maine almost my whole adult life. I have been involved in education for many years and am currently an educational therapist at a private school. In my free time, I enjoy making and listening to music, reading, and spending time in nature. I feel so lucky to be living in such a beautiful state with many cool cultural offerings. I look forward to sharing the wonders of Maine with other women in this area.

Womenās groups were a lifeline for me when I moved to Colorado over a decade ago. Iām originally from Michigan, then spent 17 years in No. Florida, Iām now proud to call the Denver area home. I look forward to sharing the great variety of activities available here with others. Iām an indoorsy person, so youāll see me hosting events like movies, museums, crafting, and such. But, the wonderful thing about FFF>50 is that the members can shape the group by hosting any event they desire. I look forward to seeing what Denver members come up with!

Stacy is a graduate of Teachers College, Columbia University where she earned a Master of Education and a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology.Ā She served as a teacher and psychological counselor for the New York City Department of Education for twenty-one years, until her retirement in 2021. A mountain lover and world traveler, Stacy has spent time in the Himalayas, the Andes, the High Atlas Mountains, and Southeast Asia.Ā And is the author of debut novel, Behind the Jagged Edges of Silhouette Trees.

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Founder & Friend-in-Chief, Dale Pollekoff
I moved from DC to LA in 2000, after a long career in graphic design. It was hard to find friends as an older woman, so I started FFF>50. Since then, it has been my passion to knock down the silos that separate us, and facilitate friendships based on the shared experience of struggling to stay vital in a society that often separates and devalues us. Helping women by starting FFF>50 has been so rewarding! My mission is to make this a home where any woman 50+ can come for fun, friendship, and support.

Chief Financial Officer, Lindsie Carlsen
I retired from the motion picture film processing industry in 2005 and moved from the āburbsā to Los Angeles proper. I joined Meetup in 2007, and became a founding member and co-organizer of FFF>50. When COVID hit, I started hosting online āHappy Hours,ā which eventually blossomed into a variety of weekly events. Iāve met delightful women from all walks of life, love to hear their stories, and share my love of movies, philosophy, and politics. These years with the women of FFF>50 have been the most rewarding of my life, and I look forward to many more.

Hosting Director, Mercene Carlson
I was looking for places to connect when someone recommended FFF. Since joining, I have a fulfilling and active social life. I host a variety of events for the Los Angeles chapter, and as hosting director, I look forward to encouraging and helping other hosts. Iām a retired high school history teacher, a trained docent for the Santa Monica Mountains, and a volunteer at the Natural History Museum. Iāve been on the board of directors for three different organiza- tions. Bringing enjoyment and companionship is a truly rewarding experience for me.

ANN ARBOR, Irene Heik
Iām excited to be the Ann Arbor chapter lead and help nurture friendships in our community. Itās rewarding to see new people come together and enjoy the great variety of activities we plan. Iām a retired teacher, married with three daughters, and three grandchildren. I enjoy reading, crafting, yoga and socializing.

MINNEAPOLIS, Cathy Anderson
Now that I am retired and my children have moved onto their own futures, I enjoy exploring the Cities as an adult. I am always looking for new experiences, adventures, and restaurants and I believe being the Minneapolis Chapter lead is a great opportunity to help me to live an ordinary life exceptionally. I look forward to sharing my ideas with likeminded women, forming friendships and supportive relationships. As the quote from our familyās favorite movie says: Get busing living or get busy dying.

SAN FRANCISCO, Diana Leon
One of my greatest pleasures is a good bottle of wine with good food and good company. I love travel and exploring new cultures. Backpacking opened me to the freedom of the outdoors with nothing more than what I carried on my back. Iām a voracious reader. To me aging grace-fully is maintaining a healthy lifestyle and being comfortable in oneās skin. Women my age and older who are living some of their best years are an inspiration. I hope to always be a good friend by being of use, being compassion-ate, and showing gratitude to all.

SAN FRANCISCO, Allison Fairchild
I started the Berkeley chapter in 2019 after reading the NY Times article about FFF>50. Berkeley grew to over 1,000 members as it fulfilled the need women have for connection. My 30-year career as an attorney luckily ended in Ā appel-late practice after too many years of civil litigation. I'm also just finishing up a 2-year mindfulness meditation teacher certification, a practice that has been the grounding force in my life for more than 25 years. I love spending time with the friends I met through hosting events in my chapter. I look forward to retiring so I can devote myself to Mindfulness instead of law, and to collaborating with Diana to grow the San Francisco area FFF.

SAN DIEGO, Cara Todd
Creating womenās communities that are both supportive and playful is something I enjoy so much that I formed my business around it! Iām the owner of Untamed Pathways LLC, and work as a Women's Holistic Living Coach, Travel Advisor, Retreat/Event Planner, Community Engagement Manager & Writer. I enjoy nature, art, history and culture. I look forward to getting to know you, sharing adventures together and enjoying our lovely community!

DENVER, Christine Ratcliff
Womenās groups were a lifeline for me when I moved to Colorado over a decade ago. Iām originally from Michigan, then spent 17 years in No. Florida, Iām now proud to call the Denver area home. I look forward to sharing the great variety of activities available here with others. Iām an indoorsy person, so youāll see me hosting events like movies, museums, crafting, and such. But, the wonderful thing about FFF>50 is that the members can shape the group by hosting any event they desire. I look forward to seeing what Denver members come up with!

SANTE FE, Karen Cooper
Born and raised in Pennsylvania, I recently moved to Santa Fe having spent 30 years in Colorado. I met so many great women through group meetups in Colorado and I look forward to exploring the many activities here in Santa Fe and building new friendships. I enjoy wine and food, music, artisan markets and casual outdoor fun (e.g., walking, hiking, biking) just to name a few, so you will see me hosting events like these. Iām excited to see what other events Santa Fe members want to do for fun!

LOS ANGELES, Heather Dubin
I left the corporate world and my career as accounting supervisor to become an aesthetician, permanent makeup artist, and later a hypnotherapist. After finding FFF in 2018, I began hosting events, first in-person, and then online as well. Through the online events I made friends all over the world as well as right here in my own city. Iāve hosted discussions, classes ranging from Makeup 101, to dispelling myths about Hypnosis, as well as conversations to learn more about one another. Currently, I host a bi-monthly foodie event where we get together and schmooze. FFF>50 truly lives up to it name, and I'm so fortunate to have discovered people I never would have met otherwise.

LOS ANGELES, Whitney Raleigh
I hail from the 1950ās midwest, Rockford, IL, to be exact. Iām a cellist, and have played with orchestras in the states, and around the word. I married late in life to an aerospace science. We lived in Madrid, and traveled throughout Europe. While hosting an FFF event, I met a woman who rescues dogs, and that became a passion for me too. Connections you make by hosting and attending events can change your life! Even with dogs and a husband, I find time to play in local orchestras, coach middle school cello players, and host weekly luncheons where friendships are found and communities created.

LOS ANGELES, Kate OāNeal
I love LA, and enjoy exploring it with friends. Hosting FFF events is a favorite hobby, and I have found real friends through the group. A retired non-profit fundraiser, I am on a new path as a yoga instructor, Ā musician, animation filmmaker, and globetrotter.N.B. Kateās film was a finalist at the Skeleton Keyframe Animation Festival in 2023. She was the writer, director, animator, composer, and narrator, and it was her first ever attempt at animation! You can watch it here.āØ
